People that do not understand bdsm think those that are involved in such a lifestyle are deviates. What they fail to understand is that bdsm is not uncommon nor is it deviant behavior.
So many people have fetishes of all kinds and that includes wearing lingerie.Sexual or Erotic fetishism is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation. The object or situation of interest is called the fetish; the person who has a fetish for that object/situation is a fetishist. A sexual fetish may be regarded as an enhancing element to a romantic/sexual relationship “achieved in ordinary ways (e.g. having the partner wear a particular garment).”
I have several fetishes and do not find myself to be odd, strange, disgusting or unusual in any sense of the words. I require honest, open communication in my relationships and my personal relationships require a healthy sex life to flourish and to grow.
I have always been one to encourage my mate to explore their sexual wants and needs and I have always wanted to meet that one special person that accepted me for the person I am and the desires I need to have fed.
For the last six years I have cared deeply for someone and have waited for this person to step up and meet me. He has refused to do so as he is afraid of something and I have no idea what that is.
Well, I finally realized that I need to let go of that person and block him from my life and have no contact with him what so ever. This is the only way I can open myself to meet someone local that can give me what I need as well as what I want.
I will be attending a munch and a bdsm party this weekend and there is a very good chance that I will meet someone who will make me feel an attraction and a desire which I haven’t felt for anyone local in a very long time.
The man who I have carried in my heart for all these years needs to be single for a while and needs to experience the taste of different women and when he finally tires of the women maybe I will be available but then again maybe I won’t.