The last five years I have spent a tremendous amount of time on the internet and I have learned so much. I know when someone is trying to scam me and when I am being lied to.
There are so many unhappy people in this world but they just cannot bring themselves to make the moves required to make their lives happy. Let me just put this out there, you are an asshole if you are sneaking behind the back of your mate.
If you arent happy then end the relationship and move on or at least take a break and allow yourself to date other women or men. I can tell you right now if you are on websites and chatting with other women or men then you need to be bitch slapped.
The lack of respect in itself is nauseating but for a person not to be secure enough in themselves to make wise choices well that is just messed up. Do you think people just drop into your life out of thin air?
Do you not see that people come and go as they are suppose to but if you do not allow yourself to open up to someone else then you will never know happiness. You do have a soulmate if only you would let her in.