Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
We constantly kid ourselves about our lives and how we live. We fool ourselves with fake truths and eventually we realize that we are living real lies. We ignore our unhappiness and empty relationships and we lie to ourselves so we can continue to live each day a little less happier.
We wake up each day and ignore all of the signs of love lost and an empty heart. If we were to accept what is real we would make changes that would end our silent suffering. Our relationships are no longer making us complete and all we want is to feel something, anything once again.
We make moves in our lives that we come to regret, if not just a little bit. We think someone younger, prettier and sexier will make us happy. We leave the security of our current relationship and jump into something motivated by sex.
We move out of our current bed and into another thinking this is the happiness we have so longed for. Then, we realize that the sex is no longer exciting and plentiful and we wonder what we traded. We ask ourselves did we make the right move and we realize in many ways we have not.
We let our bodies take over our minds and we throw caution to the wind. Then one day we accept the fake truth that we are not in love with the person we are now with. We finally accept that what we thought was magical was nothing more than a real lie.
Finally, one day we decide to let go of the past as well as the present and we say goodbye to those we thought made us happy. We realize that being alone isnt so bad after all and we are much better off without the younger person we thought would fulfill us.
Then we decide to look for someone that fulfills a part of our past and present. We look for that one person that will help us be a well rounded individual. We look in our immediate surroundings for that person and some even search online.
If you come across someone that you are attracted to but they scare the shit out of you then that is a person you need to pursue. You fear the one that draws you in, for the first time in your life you fear being rejected.
It takes a strong person to make the moves needed to find true fulfillment. Do not fear deleting the person from your life that no longer make you feel that special feeling. Keep your head up and on straight and do what you must to be really happy.